The biggest obstacle for almost all guys wanting to meet more women is something called ‘Approach Anxiety’.

Approach anxiety (or AA for short) is an emotional response: A guy sees a girl or group of girls, and he knows all he has to do is go over and start talking to her or the group, but, suddenly, AA (approach anxiety) kicks in and he feels overwhelmed or even “paralysed”, and within a few moments, the guy convinces himself not to bother.

For most guys, this happens again and again and again! They miss opportunity after opportunity to meet attractive and interesting women day-in and day-out. I suspect many guys go through their entire life suffering from AA and eventually settle for virtually any women that come there way.

Is there a solution?

Absolutely! But first, a bit about me: I got into the Game (the pick-up arts) around 2003 – 2004 after coming out of a long-term relationship. At that time there was little information about PU (how to Pick Up women) compared to today. Although I managed to find and buy a few ebooks and started thinking about meeting more women, but virtually every time I tried, I was overwhelmed by AA… and I tried many, many times! At the time I just couldn’t get myself to approach women.

Well, being a fairly analytical person, I began to try to understand what AA is and break it down into different parts or related pieces. After some research, I realised that AA is potential phobia for many guys: an irrational fear of approaching and talking to unknown women, and I was experiencing that phobia!

After more research and experimenting, I was able to completely smash my approach anxiety: I went from unable to approach women to merging large groups (sets) of hen night-girls and isolating several women from the groups for making out (kiss closing) and getting their mobile numbers (number closing). On another night, I probably approached 40 to 50 groups (sets) and chatted to over 150 to 200 women! Some of these women were between 9 and 10 on the HB scale - almost model-like!

So how did I do it? Nothing magical! About 2 years ago, because my success, I started the Pick-up Artist Forum to help guys learn how to improve their PU skills. And, with this blog I’ll demonstrate how any guy can follow a break-through, step-by-step method for smashing AA and meet stunningly attractive and amazingly interesting women.