http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog Wed, 18 Jun 2008 11:11:36 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Here's a comment from a girl who understands pick-up (PU). Women do not find guys who can't approach attractive, desirable or 'fuck-able'! Yes, sometimes women get creeped out when they get hit on in the wrong way. But it remains true that they expect guys to approach them. I cannot even ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/why-guys-must-to-approach-women/ When I got into the game over 5 years ago, there were very limited resources for guys wanting to improve their pick-up skills, unlike today where there are tons of blogs, forums, sites, etc. So, I spent a lot of time trying to work out things for myself. One of the ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/create-your-own-sarging-frame/ I asked members of my forum for their approach anxiety questions. I received many questions via PM, here are the most popular. Question: Can you really get over approach anxiety? From personal experience and working with numerous guys that had severe AA, the answer is absolutely! Not only can you get over ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/approach-anxiety-questions/ [audio:http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/excerpt.mp3] http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/excerpt-from-zips-bitch-shield-shit-test-webinar/ More from Zip:  So, you’ve busted through the girl’s bitch shield. You’re sliding into home base, right? No, sir. Not if you are dealing with a high quality girl. A high quality girl is used to getting hit on. Not only is she used to getting hit on, she’s used to ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/why-women-test-men-the-shit-tests/ To really smash approach anxiety, you have to understand why women have bitch shields, and why rejection is nothing personal. Here’s Zip’s perspective (who is Zip?). As a woman, I don’t wake up in the morning and pray that some white night does not come rescue me from a paltry existence and ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/understand-why-women-have-bitch-shields/ Last year I was teaching a guy the pick-up arts. A good guy who’d concentrated hard on his career but had very limited success with women. He was learning quick, but he really struggled with approach anxiety. One night while out sarging, he turned to me and said, “Why can’t ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/why-can%e2%80%99t-women-approach-me/ I asked members of my pua forum about their experiences of AA. Here’s some responses I got. “Brad, I can’t explain it. It’s like you know all you’ve gotta do is just walk over and talk to the girls, but I just can’t do it!” “My biggest sticky point ever was AA. ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/what-is-approach-anxiety-aa/ The biggest obstacle for almost all guys wanting to meet more women is something called ‘Approach Anxiety’. Approach anxiety (or AA for short) is an emotional response: A guy sees a girl or group of girls, and he knows all he has to do is go over and start talking to ... http://smashapproachanxiety.com/blog/why-create-an-approach-anxiety-blog/