Here’s a comment from a girl who understands pick-up (PU). Women do not find guys who can’t approach attractive, desirable or ‘fuck-able’!

Yes, sometimes women get creeped out when they get hit on in the wrong way. But it remains true that they expect guys to approach them. I cannot even count the amount of times (probably several times a day) that I see an attractive guy and I think it would be great if he just struck up a conversation with me. In fact, half of time I am thinking about what it would be like to f*** him and the most feasible way to arrive at that stage. Even when less-than-attractive guys do it, it’s fun to talk to and even flirt with them. So why don’t I actually approach guys? Girls like guys who will take the lead. The pussy who waits for the girl and just does what she says is not desirable, and most girls would leave their pussy boyfriends at a party to go talk to the confident guy who showed interest in them at a party.

When I got into the game over 5 years ago, there were very limited resources for guys wanting to improve their pick-up skills, unlike today where there are tons of blogs, forums, sites, etc.

So, I spent a lot of time trying to work out things for myself. One of the most important techniques I developed was creating a ‘sarging frame’.

Let me explain this more. When you approach and talk to a girl or group (called a set in PUA lingo), first impressions count… and they will always count! So, within the first few minutes of interacting, if you can convey that you are a fun, friendly, confident, interesting guy, your chances of success are exponentially greater than coming across as boring, serious, insecure and nervous.

I’ve the found the most effective way of communicating that positive aura, is to create and develop a sarging frame… and it’s simpler than you think.

First, imagine yourself, in minute detail, as the guy you want to be that can easily approach and talk to women, and comes across as confident, sexy, playful, etc.

Now keep all those details in your head. Next time you go sarging, immediately bring to the front of your mind all the minute details of the guy you were meant to be, then act it out. It does take some practice, but after a short while you’ll be amazed at how fast you can switch to your sarging frame and be much more successful with women because of it Realize, this is what actors do. They create a mental frame based on the character they are playing.

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